The Lack
Why People Are Losing Their S
Have you worked with folks who have had a meltdown this year? How has it affected you? Have you ever considered how-to avoid being around people who are losing their S? Do you know how-to notice what they are going through?
The factors of why people are cracking up are fairly straightforward and unfortunately are common. There is more than enough going on: stress, mental illnesses, addictions, bad medicine, and general lack of resources for us normies.
It's a numbers game at this point of who cracks up. I have watched people I care about lose their ish. I have been “this close” many times to losing my own. Each of them -each of us- in “our own ways”, have made decisions that will cause effects for many years, and until something slows us down.
Anyone who has lost their ish knows that, it is hard to see the forest through the trees. Especially, when one is one of these or all: mentally tortured, sick, tired, broke, angry, depressed, and generally feeling like getting wasted or sleep are the only true escapes.
Aggressive C*ncers of the Soul
In this life of mine, I've known several folks who've terminated their own lives. Some passively. Some aggressively. Some knowingly. I am thinking of you Kavik; of you Quincy; of you Mike; of you Jim; of you Jon; of you Keegan; of you Kelli.
Everyone I know who did this, wanted to be more than they were, in a world better than this one. There was a lot of confusion, guilt, shame, and mental-emotional conflict inside each of them. They did not want to be themselves, anymore, in this world because it is cruel and there seems to be no loving consistency and justice available.
The Crack in Mental Health
What happens after one experiences the cracking of their mental health picture? The results are often a combination of Mental, Emotional, Spiritual, and/or Physical Death.
When I think about how often health and wellness advice is discarded by unhealthy suffering people, it is frustrating. Many wellness professionals say that "failure to implement" advice and treatment protocols, is what truly terminates one's energy flow and life.
I personally have previously not had the best self-mastery experience. With what I know now about health and wellness, it feels more resonant if I share it. This is because Crisis Prevention is much better for everyone, than Crisis Recovery Is!
This year and in coming years, LACK is why people lose their S.
If you or anyone you know is suffering in these ways below, please notice it and find a way to communicate, before all of these boxes are "ticked":
Lack of proper nutrition, sun, rest and exercise
Lack of education, self-mastery
Lack of self-control including failure to control impulses and emotional regulation
Lack of authentic confidence
Lack of sobriety, ever
Lack of sense of personal safety
Lack of care for connection to life and other living creatures
Lack of support network, because of all of these things
Lack of intimacy, because of all of these things
Add your own observations here...
<3 If you need to chat, you have the right to raise your hand and say something. You do not need to lash out, or abuse others, or yourself. <3